Bi man feeling frustrated

Yeah. I guess. Sounds like fun. But maybe could be also destructive to oneself and others at the end.

 

I don’t know how it would be destructive, unless you are teasing the people around you with announcements. I just notice the swings, not commenting on them. Maybe I’d tell folks at work, or my wife, that my back still aches from all the yard work I did this weekend, and then the next day say it was better. I wouldn’t do that with the bi-cycle.

 

I only recently came to the realization that I am bisexual and I hadn't heard of the term, "bi-cycle" before now. It made me laugh, but I can totally relate to what it means.

 

Wow, this Bi-cycle effect is something I noticed in myself but it didn't even occur to me this was something other people went through. I am a true Bi.

 

Interesting thread here. Reading what you all have been sharing suggests to me that I am probably just plain old gay. Reflecting on my past leads me to conclude the same. No cycles for me from woman to man, back and forth. Only physical attraction was/is man to man with rising and falling intensity. My attraction to a woman was always primarily intellectual, any physical attraction was/is incidental. This is why being in a sexless marriage doesn’t bother me, but not having an intimate, regular relationship with a man (a fwb) does bother me every day.