Evening, friends. I have recently shared with my wife of many years that I am bi, enjoy cd, and am wrestling with gender identity and expression. She has been taken back but has also been kind and patient. Her main concern is that of monogamy while I am feeling the need to honestly explore who I am at this point in my life. I'm not sure I can do that without engaging in same sex activity but am not ready to give up my relationship with my spouse. We've agreed to continue to talk. Have others been in a similar situation? Chosen and navigated a path to a satisfying non-monogamous relationship after a long marriage?