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Awkward and hard to answer question

Discussion in 'Anonymous Support and Advice' started by Anonymous, Dec 7, 2011.

  1. Anonymous

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    I am a bi-gendered physical male, but I feel more female than male and I want to change to female. As in COMPLETLY female. But first I want to know if I am making the right choice. So um what are the pros and cons of having a vagina?
     
  2. seeksanctuary

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    Pros;
    having a vagina :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
    having sex in a way you feel comfortable
    having body parts that match what you feel they should be

    Cons;
    the surgery is painful
    the surgery is expensive

    That's my take on it.
     
  3. Anonymous

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    I haven't had it, but I have heard the surgery is painful. This is how I see it: Happiness is worth it.
     
  4. just b urself

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    yes,happyness is very much worth it.it really is but i didnt think that bi gendered people could get surgery?can genderqueers get them too?and people with no gender?
     
  5. Anonymous

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    You guys arre right. I think I can deal with the pain. Besides I LOVE pain. I know it's creepy. I think anybody can get surgery if they want it.
     
  6. Danielle

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    You do have to see threapists first.
     
  7. Anonymous

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    Really? Looks like I need to get therapy.
     
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    yea,u have to go through therapy.its called gender therapy and u go thru that for awile and then whenever the therapist thinks ur ready u will get whatever the female hormone is called,,..estrogen i think it is so ya.i wish u best of luck and make sure u dont get one of those christain therapists that try to liek "save u".find a decent one.u can do it online or not online