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At what age did you lose your virginity?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by lovetoomuch, Feb 25, 2016.

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At what age did you lose your virginity

  1. 12-14

    10 vote(s)
    8.8%
  2. 15-17

    14 vote(s)
    12.3%
  3. 18-20

    14 vote(s)
    12.3%
  4. 21-23

    4 vote(s)
    3.5%
  5. 24-26

    5 vote(s)
    4.4%
  6. 27-30

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  7. Older than 30

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  8. Virgin (under 18)

    36 vote(s)
    31.6%
  9. Virgin (18-25)

    25 vote(s)
    21.9%
  10. Virgin (older than 25)

    6 vote(s)
    5.3%
  1. lovetoomuch

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    I just watched a BuzzFeed video and all these people were talking about losing their virginity at 14, 15, 16, etc.. I sat there thinking, "Holy crap, maybe there aren't as many 20 year-old virgins as I thought."

    Anyways, it had me thinking about the age people lost their virginity. I'm in no rush to have sex and I'm not ashamed of being a virgin by any means (I won't lie to people; I'll tell them I am if they ask). It's now just a curiosity thing I guess. So, when did you lose your virgnity?

    Also, you don't have to get into detail, but was the first time good (even though I heard that rarely happens)?
     
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    About a month ago. It wasn't that great, but I guess I would do it again? I guess it's nothing to get excited about if you aren't with someone you actually love.
     
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    I still virgin at 22.
     
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    Virgin at 45. Increasingly feeling like it will be a "forever" thing for me...
     
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    This raises the questions of if you mean the first time to ever have sex, because in that light some people (those raped/molested as kids) lost their 'virginity' at a younger age than the opinions listed.
     
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    Virgin and under 18. And I'd like to stay a virgin, thank you.
     
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    I think I just turned 20 at the time.
     
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    19 and it wasn't bad. Not great, but not bad.

    Todd
     
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    Haven't lost it and don't plan to. Because of dysphoria, I have a feeling it wouldn't go so well anyway.

    I don't see the big deal about rusing to lose virginity either. A virgin can easily become a non-virgin in a moment, but a non-virgin can never become a virgin again.
     
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    ~17 with a girl, ~23 or so with a guy.
     
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    I'd much rather tell everyone when I first started EXPERIMENTING with boys my age!!
    :kiss:
     
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    17, but It was never full intercourse. Just playing around and that was enough to make me feel less innocent. So technically stil a virgin.
     
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    I was 16. It was terrible. Enough said. :dry: :eusa_doh:
     
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    24-year-old virgin here, but for me this statement does not come with the usual shame that accompanies it due to the fact that I'm more or less asexual and I'm perfectly okay with that.
     
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    Whoa!? Was that with a guy or was this in a straight phase?
     
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    To a girl: 13

    To a boy: 17

    The girl was very eager and aggressive, and I was shy about matters, at first...with the boy, we were both shy.
     
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    The tender age of 24. It will be a year ago in two days now that I think about it