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At what age did you experience your first same-sex attraction?

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  1. europeanguy

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    17, and im 19 right now. from the age of 11 though there were alot of questionable things that happened mentally for me. but somehow i managed to go "ha! that doesn't make me gay" even though.....it really did mean that. i dont know how i justified it as normal.
     
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    I would say a few months ago, but now that I think about it, all of my life but I have been denying it up until now
     
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    I started to notice it around age 14 but didn't accept it until I was 16
     
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    Very young. I always just knew. Like I always knew my favorite color, I was always equally self-assured of my being gay, if absolutely nothing else.

    Of course I didn't know there was a word for it, or a glowing beacon of support within a community of similar individuals, but I always knew I liked other boys.
     
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    Very, very young. Maybe beginning of elementary school.
     
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    As early as I can remember. I was very interested in watching Adams apple on adult males. At the age of around ten I noticed that men were interested in staring on me. In the same year my aunt playfully made me wear her dress including a bra stuffed with towels, applied full make up on my face including blood red lipstick and then sent me into the meeting room of her husband downstairs. The men there including my uncle couldn't recognise me till I giggled. And they all started admiring the beautiful girl I looked to be. So much praise. .... I was on cloud nine.

    I felt I liked humming songs sung be female artists more than those sung by males. At the age of eleven I started feeling a strange sensation in my nipples and started secretly touching them when I could. At twelve "he" who was twenty year elder to me lifted my shirt watched my buds and told me that I had tits just like those of a twelve year old girl and I remember telling him very innocently that yes I was twelve. The same year he did me for the first time.
    At the age of fourteen I had my most fulsome orgasm (of course my dick swollen burning and wet but not erect and no ejaculation - yet I call it orgasm ) while he was screwing me. Every time he did me, he assured me that I was a lovely doll, a girl and I enjoyed that thought :icon_redf:icon_redf

    In his memory I have chosen the screen name "love doll".
     
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    19! i know i know i'm late... how could i be so blind??? i hope i'm not hte only one... i never liked guys but i also didn't think girls was an option so.. i thought i haven't met the "right" guy..
    obviously i was wrong :slight_smile:
     
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    I had my first crush 2 years ago but believe me since then there have been many... Damn you Tatiana Maslany, Sara Sigmundsdottir, Chyler Leigh and Bella Dayne why you gotta be so attractive? Recently I about just died when the actress Bella Dayne liked my photo online and when I met Sara sigmundsdottir (crushing on her way too hard) I had a mild heart attack. How some of my friends aren't suspicious is very confusing to me. But I will say when I had my first crush (which was on a girl I knew) I cried myself to sleep lol. :lol:
     
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    I had my first crush on a girl when I was 8yo. My first sexual attraction was around age 14yo.
     
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    I suspected just before I turned 15. My first sexual experience was with another girl at 15. I kept denying it until I was 18.
     
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    I was 12 -13 years old when i was first attracted to boys :slight_smile:
     
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    When I was 17 (and still thinking I was "female") I fell in love with a girl and haven't gotten over her since.
     
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    I remember being as young as 8 going "that girl seems cute, but I am also a girl..." but also noticing I like guys too. I was so confused for a long time because of it
     
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    I started noticing I like boys when I was 11ish. I did not have my first same-sex relationship until I was eighteen though.
     
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    I noticed it in high school when I was in P.E. girls seemed to be so much cuter than any of the guys they were dating. I was 15 and had to hide due to the school being Catholic. One of the seniors, a guy, I later found out had been sent to a psychiatrist to “make sure” he would not be a threat to any guy on campus.

    I feel so much better being out now and living my life.
     
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    I think 13.5? That's around the time I preferred gay porn to straight porn.
     
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    10 years old. i was attracted to a freaking video game character. im still embarrassed. i ended up having a crush on them until i was like 14~15. heck
     
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    10 years old, 5th grade. I got this huge crush on my best friend and it scared the crap out of me. By now (three years later) I've mostly accepted myself but I'm still a little nervous about it.
     
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    I was also around 11 when I felt a strange feeling of being intensely attracted to somebody. I was watching this series called "Big Time Rush" and my eyes could not look away from the screen when I saw Logan Henderson (one of the main actors). I even searched him up and stared at his face for a very long time! XD Also, I was once outside and saw these slightly muscly guys that were around 20 years old at the pool... I could not look away when I saw their very sexy bodies with water dripping from their muscles. I was so turned on by their masculine figure; I felt like my heart skipped a beat at that moment!

    A few years later I began to accept my homosexuality and now I am very happy to be gay! :grin:
     
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    13 was when I had my first crush on a boy, I wish I had had the courage to tell him. I never really worked about labels untill a few years ago that's when I finnaly labeled myself bi, still haven't told many people.