Hey!HeyHey! So here is a little about me! I’m 33 A mom Recently Divorced.. And I know I like girls! But I’m questioning myself! Story time: I dated girls in HS,I started liking them in elementary school. I was always bummed out about being a girl because I was raised in a Christian home where girls don’t kiss girls! I couldn’t go on the boy trips to fish and hunt.literally had to leave while I was sleeping or I’d cry. Because I wasn’t a boy. Hate wearing girly clothes. Don’t do my makeup and I love short hair. I’m fine with being a girl well for the most part don’t like a few things (pms..boobs) but they are there I can hide one but sometimes I like being a girl and looking pretty but I’m more comfortable in boy clothes and being pronounced as she/her but don’t mind he/him or they what am I? Am I bi? Am I trans? Am I a freak?
Thanks I have been talking to a friend about it and they say trans but I’m like I don’t wanna do t or change my name or pronouns i do want top surgery!I just wanna date girls and look like a boy or date boys and look like a boy or etc I just wanna feel normal. And I don’t wanna label it.. does that make since?
It is so normal... at least around here. The good news: you know what you want and aren't hesitating to say it. That's usually a real good sign. Welcome to EC! (Sorry you couldn't go on those "boys" trips... gender preference/identity shouldn't affect that.)
Welcome to EC! Don't worry, you're not a freak. It is easy to feel like that though while you are trying to figure out what you are. With time things will become more clear
Welcome to the community! It's understandable to feel unsure about things but you're not a freak. I think with time you may find where you fit and how you want to identify yourself. It took me a few years to figure it out for me. Just be patient with yourself and it'll come in time. I hope you enjoy your stay here.
