40 year old guy here. Been separated from my wife (kinda), and have found that I am just as easily aroused by women in real life relationships, but I it is easier for me to reach climax now masturbating (without porn) thinking of a man. Before my “awakening” two years ago, I was always more aroused and turned on by the situational.....thinking about cheating or past experiences where women risked their relationships? for me. I still can get excited by those situations in real life, but they don’t fuel the fantasy any longer. Anyone have a similar experience of ability to climax changing?
Interesting. It would make sense since you're bisexual. I think people are just different. I get off to different stuff all the time.
