Arghhhh... Questions

Well its not like porn, that is for sure. So you can calm down. Granted the choking thing is possible depending on how big the penis is that you are sticking in your mouth, most people can't just deep throat it their first time.

If you search around a bit there are threads that kind of explain anal sex and blowjobs. But again, porn isn't much like real life.

 

For one thing, penis pretty much tastes like skin. You have to be careful sucking though, it’s quite easy to gag

 

Like Shorthaul said, don't build expectations for your own sexual experiences based on what you've seen in porn. It's highly edited, and the people in it have a lot of practice. Anal sex is very enjoyable when done properly. If you've never done it before, you'll want your partner to take it slow, and it should never hurt. If you'e curious, I would suggest buying some toys for anal play, to get used to the sensation of have something in there. The first times you try it, you'll probably be pretty tense, and it might be difficult. Just make sure to use plenty of lubricant and don't force anything. And when you do decide to have anal sex with other people, you can do things like anal douching to make sure everything is clean.

When it comes to blowjobs, it's really hard to deep throat, even if you have a lot of experience, and it's not really necessary. I mean if you can do it, go for it, but your gag reflex will probably stop you, and you can give a really enjoyable blowjob without it. If you are worried about gagging, or you find that you do gag pretty easily, you can train your gag reflex to be less sensitive. You'll probably gag a little, especially when you first start giving blowjobs, but you're not going to choke to death or anything. As far as semen, I like the taste of it. It depends on what the person has been eating, but it's usually described as a little salty. Some people also say it can be sweet, but I've never found it to be.

Just try not to get too worried when you start becoming sexually active. A lot of people's first times can be awkward, and that's fine. One of the first times I was getting a blowjob, I accidentally came in the guy's eye. I was soooo embarrassed, but I survived, and it didn't stop us from seeing each other again. Yeah... I don't really know how to conclude a paragraph about a botched blow job, so I think I'm just going to end it here.

 

Here are some explanations, I tried not to be too overly graphic with them.

Being the bottom with a guy - The first couple times yea it's kind of uncomfortable because it's a really new and unique feeling. There's nothing a guy can experience that feels the same way so it's unexpected. It's not painful, there's just a lot of pressure and added warmth. Once you get more used to it though it feels pretty great, the change in pressure as the guy pushes in and out is really pleasurable and since the male G-spot is in there it's like having a tiny orgasm every time that spot gets hit the right way (which is what causes some of the yelling in porn).

Being the top with a guy - Pressure is what causes the pleasure again, except this time it's the pressure of you pushing inside them as their body naturally is trying to push you back out. You can feel the anal contractions caused by you penetrating them and it's really enjoyable. The whole 'brown stuff comes out' thing isn't really a concern, feces isn't stored in the anus all the time it's only there temporarily while you're going to the bathroom. Normally it's deeper into your body and the anal cavity is empty, so as long as the bottom washes themselves outside and a little bit inside there's actually nothing in there at all during the sex.

Being with a girl - instant warmth and wetness upon entering her, the vagina molds itself around you and fits your dick like a glove. The pleasure is from sliding in and out and the pressure from feeling their body contract, clamp down on you, and pulsate rhythmically according to your speed and technique.

Receiving a blowjob - It's not supposed to hurt at all. How good it feels depends on the other person's skill mostly, and there's a lot of pleasure from it just being in their mouth without them even having to do anything just because the warmth and wetness of it feels nice. The sucking is to add pressure again, and if they're good at it they can stimulate you a lot by moving their tongue around on the sensitive parts. There's also a mental part of it, I don't really know what causes it but something about getting a blowjob feels really powerful. You look at the other person and realize their only concern in life at that moment is pleasuring you, which makes you feel really dominant and in control of them.

Giving a blowjob - The first rule of blowjobs is don't bite and don't use teeth, it feels really bad when someone doesn't know what they're doing and accidentally scrapes their teeth against your dick repeatedly. The concept is pretty simple, just suck on it and move your tongue around. One of the things that surprised me the most is it really doesn't taste like anything, it's just like a thicker finger pretty much and tastes the same way, a big piece of skin. It's not dangerous and you won't choke on it unless you try to push it all the way down your throat, which most people physically can't do anyway without gagging. Semen taste depends heavily on their diet, and since most people eat too much salt in their diet it will taste salty most of the time. If they eat pineapple a lot it will have a much sweeter taste. The texture is kind of like melted liquid marshmallow, you can tell it's liquid but it still has that thick feeling to it.

 

It's not weird at all to be asking this at 17, actually most guys think about sexual stuff stuff pretty much nonstop at your age. Most people seem to have sex for the first time around 16 or 17 so it's totally normal for you to be asking these things. Yea it's probably because of hormones that you feel more sexual than usual. Enjoy the excitement of it while it lasts - everything is so great when it's new to you.

 

Yeah, its never supposed to hurt. What you see in porn is more of a fantasy of the top having physical power over a bottom, but it not what gay sex is supposed to look for everyone all the time. The hard thing to learn when you are so young is that the type of sex that you have is completely up to you and your partner. You can have rough and hard sex, get chocked and your hair pulled OR you can have passionate and slow sex where you both connect in different way. Its all up to you to decide.

When you watch porn look up different types of porn too. So look up a long term couple having sex. Look up passionate gay sex. You will see that is not painful, it can be very tender, and it can be pure pleasure for all involved.

Haha sex is disgusting. All of it. Straight and gay.

When you go down on someone you will be sucking where pee comes out of. If you were straight and were to hook up with a girl, then she will have to make sure to go to the bathroom so there aren't toilet paper bits hanging around. Also, straight couples have anal sex as well. At one point it just stops being a thing

Keep asking questions. All part of learning

 

You are right, sex can be disgusting. That’s part of the excitement for me though

 

I shouldn’t say disgusting I guess. At least not to me. I just enjoy some kinky things, and some of them involve bodily fluids. Not anything too weird, but. It normal I guess

 

Oh they definitely make butt toys. I have a small collection of them

 

Ths

thats up to you. Most of them simulate penises and many of them are shaped they way. I’m sure you can imagine what you do with them without going into details