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Are you lonely?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Yayo, Nov 7, 2014.

  1. Yayo

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    Simple question I think:slight_smile:!

    My answer is a big yes :frowning2:..there's soo many people in my life but I feel so lonely constantly:frowning2: I would be happy if I could find just like one special person to be intimate with and talk to:x

    Your turn..feel free to rant about the loneliness..but don't overdo it! Leave enough emotion to fuel productivity and change:slight_smile:
     
  2. Hexagon

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    Not currently. But sometimes I am.
     
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    Oh yeah I'm lonely. I could rant forever but, you asked nicely lol

    I feel trapped.
    I just want one friend that I could be accepted by and talk to IRL about stuff openly. Then I would be happy.

    But a special somone wouldn't be too bad either :grin:
     
  4. Yayo

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    I know the feeling! And a special someone doesn't have to be a boy! It can just be a friend you care about deeply:slight_smile: but a guy would be great for me too :x a nice one, not a user (a loot of those out there sadly)
     
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    yes. a lot of it is self inflicted though. i always end up pushing away everyone i love so that they wont get hurt.
     
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    As a natural loner, most of the time no.

    Sometimes, when I really crave human contact, horribly so.
     
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    Sometimes I feel that longing for someone to hold at night so much, that I actually shed tears into my pillow. At present that passion has given way to a grim determination not to let myself feel this too much, so I can endure this period of 'waiting' more easily.
     
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    Well you're very young and I'm sorry you have to experience that already! But I can say I do relate! I think its one of those things that comes in waves, and for myself I'm trying to get better! But sometimes you just need to work on *you* even if it means being lonely(*hug*)
     
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    Yes.. I am lonely despite having family and friends around me. It is hard not to have that special someone to cherish and spend your time with.
     
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    This quote puts it rather well:

    "I am lonely, yet not everybody will do. I don't know why, some people fill the gaps but other people emphasize my loneliness." - Anaïs Nin

    I've been lonely since my parents divorce, which was the catalyst of my depression. My friends weren't there for me so I sort of isolated myself. Now, it's almost been three years since then. When my parents divorced I was 13, so with some math I'd say I'm 16 now. Anyhow, my isolation has caused me to be different than others my age, I find. There's almost always something missing when I talk to people at school. Even though I wish I had better friends, it's sort of easier to be alone. I don't know.

    Hugs to everyone. (*hug*)
     
  11. White Knight

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    Another natural loner here.

    I think I have enough human contact from net, in this forum or my gaming buddies. Probably it is because I can log off from virtual reality but not from real life. People keep on bugging me in real life even when I need to be alone most.
     
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    That was beautiful.

    You, pretty much, summed up my answer.
     
  13. Hexagon

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    Same here, really.
     
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    Yeah, most of the time. People like to make me an outcast everywhere I go. So I don't bother anymore.
     
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    It's destiny that damned souls like solitude.
    I'm damned and I really like being in solitude, in fact.

    I like also being in someone's company sometimes, of course. But if I am always in someone's company, I feel mentally exhausted. I need the company of my soul to "burden myself again".
     
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    I am almost always lonely.
     
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    Yeah I'm lonely. My mum is always at home but there's nothing much for me to talk about and I'm the only child. My dad is always in his office and my friends all take so long to reply to my texts. So yeah, I feel lonely like I have no one to talk to about my feelings, because I'm not out to my mum yet..
     
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    Yeah, I'm pretty dang lonley... I've never and probably will never fit in with any of my friends. But I'm happy anyways. I hang out with myself and it's not too bad. I know it sounds sad, but it's not, I'm used to it.

    As a child I had a bunch of imaginary friends and my life was great!
     
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    Now, now guys.

    I get where you all coming from but you are not alone. We are here for each other. So think this time as an opportunity to find yourselves and be more ready to embrace that special someone when they come to your way. You want to present them your best, right?

    Aaaand thit post cries for this song. Fu fu fu!

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-QCBt-VUJIs

    (*hug*) to you all.

    PS: Awww it seems Youtube linky thing is broken. So you have to click on the link. :frowning2: