was wondering, did anyone that was in a heterosexual marriage ever regret starting a new gay life? All I read is stories of people feeling liberated, but since I’m very confused about how gay I actually am, I’m so afraid i’ll regret it a year from now. I’m in my 40’s and have a very nice family with three kids. Good relationship with my wife, though I miss being sexually interested. Came out to her last year, she’s very understanding. But I’m stuck at a crossroads since I hate the thought of leaving our great family life for something that is very vague, only based on fantasies and assumptions that I might regret later.