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Anybody else too scared to have sex?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by GayBatman, Sep 23, 2016.

  1. Austin

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    I'm paranoid about STDs.
     
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    One of my biggest fears is getting HIV/AIDS so, yeah. Of course, I'm concerned about other STDs/STIs too.

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    That's good to hear! I hope it goes well for you.
     
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    I want to have new experiences with guys, but I really don't want to get pregnant. I don't take any contraception pills.
     
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    Yes, I feel like that all the time. Sadly, my sex drive is still way up there.

    I think it's a mix of everything. I'm still partly ashamed of who I am, I worry about the guys in the area, my parents used to be quite smothering so I just gave up on finding someone....and...yeah. I'm shy, too, so I don't go after it.
     
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    You just think like that because you are experiencing to be with your loved one or special someone. Sooner or later you will be in that stage and you don't feel sex is terrifying. Are you in a current relationship?
     
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    Oh my gosh yes!! I am scared that i'll do something wrong and ruin everything.:icon_redf
     
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    Sort of, I haven't had sex yet and I'm still kind of shy when it comes to intimacy, but I'm not afraid of the actual act. I like people for their personality rather than their appearance (though that always is a factor, small as it may be), so I know it will be with the right person when the time comes :slight_smile: