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Any transgender or gender fluid people fancy a chat?

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  1. Alice89

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    I’m just looking to make a few new friends and just talk about feelings, thoughts, clothes and just life really. :grin:
     
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    MUAHAHAHA!
    Hi. I’m a genderfluid girl (boy?? Whatever ). Nice to meet ya friend!
     
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    Hi nice to meet you :slight_smile:. I was born male but have thought for a long time I was gender fluid but I’m starting to think that it’s more then that and that I might be transgender.
     
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    Why is that if you don’t mind? You don’t have to tell me! I’m just interested. Oh, and you can call me Jay (not my real name just something I like going by as well to Chaos.)
     
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    Hi Jay :slight_smile: you can call me Alice. (Not my real name).
    It’s hard to explain really but I’ll try. For years I just thought hey I like cross dressing but then I started thinking I feel really comfortable dressed as a girl but I also still liked myself as a guy but now the more I think about it the more I’ve started to hate how I look and wish that I had a more feminine body. I think the hardest part is the confusion because I still do like being a guy. I hope that makes sense?
     
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    It really does. I mean, it took me a lot of time to figure out that I was genderfluid. The thing was that it took a lot of anxiety and anger for me to figure out who I was during that time. Like right now I feel much more comfortable being called male then female. Sometimes I wish I could bind or wear the clothes that I really want to just to achieve the way that I want to be. At the same time however, I’m not against getting my nails and hair done, or just being really girly and chatting about relationships with others. It’s a confusing mess but I’m sure it’ll get better In time.
     
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    I understand what you mean about wearing the clothes that you want to. I can’t express myself which makes things all the more frustrating for me :/ and I don’t have anyone who I can be girly around or have girly chats with.
     
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    Hi there Alice. I'm down to talk anytime.
     
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    Hi Kodo. How are you doing? Hope you are ok.
     
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    Well, I’m always here if ya wanna chat.
     
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    Hi. I've struggled with my gender identity a lot. I am AMAB, I tend to fluctuate between identifiying as a girl and identifying as androgynous. I really like the genderqueer label, because it's really all-encompassing, but for me labels are less important in my identity. I have a specific fashion sense, I prefer female pronouns. But that's the extent of my gender identity.
     
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    Sorry I’m not sure i know what AMAB means :s. I don’t like labels but I guess I am just trying to figure out who I am so I can more forward if that makes sense?
     
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    Hey Alice, I'm Stef. How are you doing?
     
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    Hi Stef nice to meet you :slight_smile:. To be honest with you Stef im really struggling today. I’m sat at work on my own wanting to burst into tears. How are you?

    (Sorry for the depressing reply)
     
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    Ah sorry to hear that. No need to apologise, you have a right to your own emotions. Any particular reason you’re feeling this way?

    As for me I’m alright. Just got through a bunch of tests for med school so I’m resting for thre first time since July...
     
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    Oh wow that must be such an amazing achievement. Do you have more tests or is that it?
    I’m feeling down because I’m suffering with what I think is body dysmorphia and not being able to find a release for how I’m feeling.
     
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    I’m pretty gender fluid! I consider myself more androgynous than gender fluid. I refer to myself as “she” but don’t consider myself as one specific gender.
     
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    I think being androgynous would really help me as I’m not out so I can’t go full female and have to stay being full male but I just have no idea about how to be androgynous. I’d love to be more feminine but my lack of confidence stops me. Any tips?
     
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    Hello :slight_smile:
    AMAB/MAAB = assigned male at birth
    AFAB/FAAB = assigned female at birth

    I'm sorry you're feeling down
     
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    Ah that makes sense. Thank you.
    I feel really trapped in my own head at the moment and it normally goes away after a while but lately it’s just getting worse. Like I just see pictures of women or even women’s clothing and it sends me into this thought of I wish I could look like that or I wish I could wear that. Does that make sense?