I messaged my friend directly about misgendering and gave her an ultimatum that I might end all connection with her otherwise, if she keeps misgendering me. She wrote back to me sorry, but I don't know how sincere she is. We'll she what will happen from now on. I feel like I have been setting my boundaries all day today, some relatives of mine are really insensitive and today I told what I think about these things and that what they said wasn't appropriate and that I have feelings too. My relative don't seem to care though. I cried and am really tired. Today was eventful.