Well, after many delays, and lots of money, I am divorced. Her and I are on relatively good terms. I thought that I would have more of a sense of anguish, because no matter what has transpired, and the disastrous results of of staying together for over 15 years after it was obvious that I was gay, I wouldn’t be here if I didn’t travel there. I have noticed though we have been split for so long, having an official status of single has made me feel even freer. I am just so happy to be living authentic me.