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Am I the only lesbian who does not have any interest in dildos?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Pneumaura, Dec 31, 2016.

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  1. Pneumaura

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    I like using vibrators and sex toys with girls sometimes, but I definitely don't need them to get off...and it does frustrate me sometimes when girls express that they can't have a good time unless they have a dildo, preferably one that looks JUST like a dick. :roflmao: I personally don't care for dildos or lesbian pegging, but some of the girls I have been with lately, they say they prefer this. And I dread it almost every time. :bang: Anyone else with this issue?
     
    #1 Pneumaura, Dec 31, 2016
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    You're not alone there. I don't get off with them and there's no point to it for me.

    However, some women actually do get off on the g-spot stimulation, or even cervix stimulation. I don't, so it does nothing for me. But for partners that it does work, it is additional stimulation that can bring them to higher orgasm. Secondly, some like the domination/dominatrix part of it.
     
    #2 bunnydee, Dec 31, 2016
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    Hi!

    I've been with my wife for 6 years and neither of us have ever used dildos. Personally I dont like a lot of penetration, i like clit and hard kissing and closeness.

    Sex depends on the individual. Whatever it us that you like is completely fine and when someone wants to make u truely happy they will respect and listen to what u want and like most.
     
    #3 Lynz, Dec 31, 2016
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    I have absolutely no interest in dildos. In fact, if I see dildos in some lesbian porn, I immediately turn it off or switch to another video or something.

    When I was in my 20s (I'm in my 40s now), a woman asked if she could use a dildo on me, and I said I wasn't interested. I felt like if you're going to have a dildo inside of you, you might as well be with a man.

    I find two vaginas rubbing against each other very sexy/sexually arousing and a woman's finger inside my vagina arousing as well and that's it for me. I would prefer no dildo-like thing in there.
     
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    No, for me It's a complete dealbreaker. If my girlfriend desperately wants to be penetrated, then fine, I'll use a toy on her or I'll "top" (but don't prefer it). But nothing will never go inside my crotch, and that's final. If a girl wants to penetrate me to be satisfied, I will dump her.

    This is part of why I envy straight men since being pegged isn't mandatory for them and they are allowed to refuse. I'll just be looking for a girl who hates toys as much as I do.
     
    #5 Creativemind, Jan 1, 2017
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