Hi Everyone, I'd like to get your opinion on some issues I'm having with my sexuality. Please keep in mind while you read this that I am completely closeted and have never been in a sexual relationship of any kind with another person. This is about my sexuality in a more abstract way. I'm kind of distressed by the fact that I'm not attracted to black people or asians. Does this make me racist? I mean, I'm pretty much only attracted to white people (or moderately tanned complexions). I seriously can't help it. I've had many asian friends over the years, but have never felt a sexual attraction to them. I feel really bad about this and feel like, if I do come out of the closet one day, that I'm just too particular. I mean, I'm not too particular. I typically don't like guys who have amazing muscles and are super pumped. That actually turns me off a bit. I'm attracted to leaner physical types and if they have a handsome face it'll get my attention. Honestly, Tom Cruise in Cocktail is basically my ideal look for a guy (I hope this doesn't make me sound like an idiot to you guys, I'm just being honest). Anyway, what do you guys think? It's just that, I feel if I ever said a blanket statement like this to someone ("I'm not attracted to black or asian people") I'd be crucified for it. But I mean it - I wish it weren't true. Is there something wrong with me (I mean, beyond being gay)? I hope you guys don't think I'm ignorant or closed minded for feeling this way.