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Am I bisexual or lesbian with a penis fetish?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by CLWife, Jul 14, 2017.

  1. CLWife

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    Hello guys!
    I am a girl and I feel attracted physically and emotionally to girls. I am not attracted to boys at all. I cannot even imagine dating a boy or having sex with him.
    I have only one problem. Penises make me horny and I only can have an orgasm watching guys masturbate and ejaculate (I've never had sex with anyone so I only masturbate). I only watch their penises, I don't care about the rest of their bodies. Only the penis. I don't know why but sometimes, when I masturbate I wonder how good it would be if I had a penis. Please don't misunderstand me. I'm not thinking about changing my sex because I don't feel like I'm a boy.
    I really love natural penises so I hate dildos.
    When I walk on the streets I look at the shapes of the penises in men's trousers. I just can't help myself.
    Now, the question is: Am I bisexual or do I have a penis fetish?
     
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    Fetish. You sound a lot like me, except for the fact that I'm male. And have actually indulged my fetish.

    But here's a question: how would you feel about a girl with a penis?
     
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    I totally get this and don't think it means anything about your sexuality. I'm bi/possibly gay (realizing I'm rarely attracted to men) and I have always gotten aroused seeing and imagining the pleasure of a penis. I even had a dream once I had one and was so turned on. I see it as it's this intense pleasure stick guys have and yeah I may be a bit jealous sometimes lol. Definitely not in a "I want to be a man" way. I wouldn't worry at all! :slight_smile:
     
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    I really don't know. Maybe a little weird, but if the girl is beautiful I think I would feel ok. I like the idea of a hot and beautiful girl with a penis (not dildo).
    Thanks for your answer. :slight_smile:
     
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    I love the variety of people here. Let's hear it for rainbows!
     
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    This does seem a bit strange to me, but I think anything can happen. Maybe you are just more compatible with trans women.
     
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    I find it strange too. To be honest, one of the main reasons for me to identify as bisexual was because I find the idea of "playing" with a penis fun, even with my lack of desire in relationships and sex with the males I've met in real life. I heard about many straight men that were into trans women though. Maybe that's your case? Sounds like something worth checking out.
     
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    I'd say fetish. I have the same thing and I'm male. I love women and have no sexual and definitely not emotional attraction to men, except their penis. I have had sex with now 2 men and they both tried to kiss me and get intimate before and I hated it. I really just like the penis and to pleasure it. So sounds like you have exactly the same thing I have. Nothing to be ashamed of or worry about
     
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    OT but I feel similarly (I'm the one who posted "I hate being bisexual"). I find the idea of PIV a bit sexy, but that's it. I have no desire for men aside aesthetically, but honestely, 95% of heterosexual women I've encountered have aesthetic attraction to other women.

    So to OP: I'd say fetish.
     
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    JOY TO THE RAINBOWS! JOY FOR ALL ETERNITY

    But yeah fetish
     
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    I am a man who finds women so hot. But I do like the idea of penises. I like the idea of having a woman with a penis.