I am unsure whether I am best identified as bi or gay. To be honest, I am unsure whether it is even possible to answer this question. Some details: I am a woman who is primarily attracted to other females. However, I can experience attraction to biological males (not really men, as such) as long as they are very non-binary or trans. Basically, for me to be attracted to a biological male they have to be feminine enough that they might get mistaken for a woman from a distance, or if you didn't look that closely. They also can't have very obvious male physical traits like body hair, facial hair (especially not facial hair!), broad shoulders, muscular bodies etc. I feel that describing myself as bi is inaccurate since I am attracted to women and non-binary people, but not binary men, especially if they are cis. However, I feel that gay may also be an exaggeration. How should I describe myself?