For the past four years I have always been very casual when I was with my girl-friends, dropping hints that I didn’t take seriously. When I asked my friend on a date and really meant it, but thought I was just kidding. I am confused. When another friend of mine showed me a photo oh her and her best friend kissing, I wanted it too. I also no longer see myself with a man anymore but also with a woman. I am not sure what any of this is. Does it mean that I am, or I am not. I’m confused.