My bf and I have been together for over a year now. We've communicated quite regularly and met up once a week, just to catch up and whatnot. However, over the past couple of weeks, we've been communicating significantly less and while initially it wasn't an issue, he would not reply to my messages and if he saw them via iMessage, it would be left as "Read". I brought this issue up and he's said it's due to school and other priorities. I understand where he's coming from, but all I wanted was to hear from him here and there, nothing too crazy. Looking back at our chat, I was upset over the fact that we haven't been talking as much as before. He's also said he has priorities aside from me, and I think that statement upset me. He's also said I was being too selfish, which at the time I probably was. I'm not in school right now, and this situation happened last year but roles reversed; I was in school focusing hardcore on my studies, while he was also in school but the workload was far less than mine (I'm currently taking a year off). Am I being too codependent/needy? Let me know what you guys think.