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Aloha from the Big Island of Hawaii

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Father Freddie, Aug 3, 2015.

  1. Father Freddie

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    I just turned 77 - actually the number is 76, but it reminds me of those gas stations with the big ball and the number 76. Actually I'm in my 77th year so I'm sticking with that number. I just had my annual physical at the V.A., Dr. Davies said I have another 20-25 years ahead of me, if I behave myself. I live alone at the moment and got to thinking, 20-25 more years of being alone - I don't think so. Don't get me wrong, I get along with myself very well and don't mind being alone. It's just that I don't want to do that any longer. So, now what? I'm way past those frightening dating sites and bar hopping is out of the question. When I was younger I'd see older guy coming into the bar I frequented. I decided then and there I would never do that.

    I was surprised to learn that there are younger men who prefer the company of older men. How much younger? It seems that 20 years younger is not that unusual. I like that figure and someone 57 or there about is old enough to know better and young enough to be interesting.

    I've been busy and moving around most of my adult life, never had time for a LTR. Now, that I'm retired, the possibility seems intriguing. But where do you find someone? I came across Empty Closets and decided to introduce myself and see if anyone had any suggestions on how to accomplish the goal I have in mind. There's a profile and current photo. Don't drink, smoke, no alcohol, HIV neg. and no meds. I hate that when people first meet you, they ask what kind of meds I take. I lose interest real fast with that attitude.
     
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    Hi David-

    Thanks for the welcome. I appreciate it more than you know.
     
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    Hey there!!!!
     
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    Hey Evitermoi
    New Zealand - great country.
    Interesting tag line - what's that all about?
     
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    Welcome Freddie :slight_smile:

    Your story was really interesting. I don't know anything about the dating scene in that age bracket but thank you for sharing your story and I hope that you find what you're looking for!

    Wow! 76! You must have some really cool stories to tell.

    Anyway, welcome again :slight_smile:
     
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    Well its personal issues mostly.... Like you I'm from the pacific islands!!
     
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    Hi Father, wecome to the EC. Can't really give advice on the dating game as I can't even say hi to someone I like, never mind going on a date lol. But they say there is someone or there for everyone, I hope you find him :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to EC! :slight_smile:
     
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    Hello back at ya lovely lesbian - happy to make your acquaintance.

    Thanks Greenapple, and you're right, I'm a walking encyclopedia of gay experiences. I decided to use some of those memories in short stories I am now writing - they all have happy endings. LOL I'm wondering, is there a place on this site to posts stories like i've written?

    Evitermoi - personal issues? Now, you wouldn't be hiding something from us, would you?

    Sky 82 - well, you said hi to me and the world didn't stop turning. Hi back at ya.

    Thanks Justin88

    New Zealand, United Kingdom, Canada - the world gets smaller all the time. Aloha nui loa to all of you e malama pono. Translation: A big hello to all and you take care of you.

    Freddie.