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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by all paths, Apr 15, 2014.

  1. all paths

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    all paths, here. :slight_smile:

    I was late in coming out to myself in life...34.

    But I guess I made quick work of things...had a 1st girlfriend that same year, was engaged, even (that fell through :eusa_doh: )...and then 2 years later finally came out to my 1st real-life person.

    Now I've pretty much come out to my mom...though I'm still not sure she realizes or has absorbed it yet...(isn't denial funsies?).

    I'm out to another acquaintance and then several online friends & acquaintances.


    I'm physically attracted to men, but that's almost it. I've had a few crushes on men which were more like admirings, but I've consistently always fallen in love with women. Toward most women, though, I do not feel a great deal of physical desire/attraction. I've kind of decided that I am demisexual toward women (with the emotional connection there, physical desire turns on like a flash!), though definitely strongly homoromantic.

    Toward men, I am heterosexual for the most part (don't wanna kiss, or hug...but yes to that other thing :wink: ) but nearly aromantic. I feel little to nothing, emotionally & connection-wise or "fit"-wise, with men. They are friends with sexy bodies sometimes. :icon_bigg

    I'm not really femmey (I don't think) but I'm definitely not butch, and not androgynous. Generally speaking though I guess I easily "pass" as straight. At least the 1 gay guy I came out to looked genuinely surprised. :icon_lol:

    It's nice to be here and know that whatever my experiences, I'm most definitely not alone. And that there are others here to support me & lend their advice to me.

    So thank you. (&&&)
     
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    Hi hi! *wave*

    Thank you!
     
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    Hi hi, welcome to EC
     
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    Hey there!!! Only now I got across your intro... Welcome to EC, it maybe late though but nevertheless welcome... See you around... :wink:
     
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    welcome!!! :slight_smile:
     
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    :smilewave welcome to EC :icon_bigg
     
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    Hiya. :slight_smile: Thank you, all!
     
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    Hello lovely! ;D
     
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    Welcome to Empty Closets, and congratulation on your coming out journey thus far. :slight_smile:
     
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    Thank you! :slight_smile:

    (And nice to see another 37-yr-old. :wink: )
     
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    Did you welcome me before or am I just imagining it now? xD

    lol Sorry.

    Thank you!! :grin:
     
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