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Advice needed, desperately. Pls

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by CharlsOn, Dec 8, 2014.

  1. CharlsOn

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    I have an online friend whom I love really much. This online friend wants to break contact bc they feel not worthy of talking to me.
    I'd really really really love to keep contact. More than...
    I just don't know how to convince this person that they is worthy.
    I really don't want to lose contact and I'd do anything to keep it.
    Please, any advice? I really need it.
    I appreciate it very much
     
  2. MusicislifeXD

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    I have been here before. I will respond later cuz I'm busy, but stay positive and I have an idea for you. In an hour or so.
     
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    Thank you:slight_smile:
     
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    Okay, so first, I would figure out if your friend wants to stop contact for the reason they say. They might be too nervous to tell you the real reason. But you know them better, so maybe you already know if they're telling the truth.

    Second, try showing them how much they mean. Obviously, tell them but also maybe send them an online card or a gift to them. I'm not so good at this type if thing, but just something to show you care.

    Also tell them that it would hurt you if they left, because they might reconsider based on that.

    And lastly, let them know you respect their decision. It would be hard, but in the end, they might respect you for saying that and reconsider.

    I hope this helps, and I wish you the best!
     
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    Thank you again.
    I'm gonna try this. Hopefully it works
    Thx:slight_smile: