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advice about a crush

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Diane05, Dec 10, 2018.

  1. Diane05

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    I have had a crush on a friend of mine for a few months now and I figured it would go away by now. This friend though has no clue I am a lesbian and she is constantly touching me so this once little crush is not so little any more. I do not know what to do any more, because this crush has been distracting me from school.
     
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    I say tell her. It shouldn't matter go for it. Take the chance and see what the outcome is.
     
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    yeah,but I do not want her to be weird around me, or lose one of my closest friends.
     
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    I know how how you feel and with what I did, I took a chance and I was happy. You need that as well.
     
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    I know what you mean, I’ve had my share of secret crushes too. Normally they pass quickly enough but every now and then it can be tough to get over them. As hard as it sounds, you may need to distance yourself from her to give yourself a leg up. That will be awkward but it sounds like a little awkwardness may be unavoidable in the case. Good luck!