What worked well for you, and what didn't, when you came out to your kids? I'm in a struggling hetero marriage, I'm not straight, and I have 4 kids, from 13 to 24 years old. My wife thinks it's only fair to let the kids them know the truth about this area of tension between her and me. It would be nice be more authentic with my kids, although I've always thought of my wife's and my issues around sex to be something that is not our kids' business. Your thoughts?