a weird situation

im in a super weird position. its been a little over a year since i have been on this account but for the last 7-8 months i have been thinking i am a gay, male. but recently i have begin to think my gender and sexuality. but here is the weird thing, i see myself in three completely different identities. so on one hand i see myself as a gay male, on another i see myself as a nonbinary person who is atracted to men, and on another i see myself as a straight up lesbian. like i. i. i dont know. i am not even sure i am attracted to men, like yeah when i am watching porn or masturbating i think of men, but like that is only when i do it and its not like really something i like to do more a way for me to blow off steam… like not something that i look forward to when im not. like i can see myself as a girl or at least more of a feminie person and be with a girl. like i wouldn't want to do anything sexual but i could see myself like kissing and being like super in love with a girl but only when i picture myself female presenting. like i think i like boys bc i am kinda dating a boy rn, its a weird situation, i think we both want to be dating each other but haven't been able to go on enough dates to label the relationship. like i dont know whats going on. pls any advice...