I don’t know what to do. My 14 year old son is my world. He is crazy smart, kind and the best person I know. Ever since he was little I’ve always felt that he might be gay, but I decided to let him find his way and tell me when he felt like he wanted to. The other night his cousin (who he hasn’t seen in years) came to town and while they were talking she decided to ask him if he was gay. She’s 20 and extremely immature and seeks attention from everyone around her. He told her he thought he was gay and shared several other private details with her about his experiences so far and how he is feeling about everything. The reason I know all of this is she came and told me everything he said right after he told her. I’m pretty sure she pressured him into telling her, and I know he had asked her to keep it to herself. I’m so pissed that she did this and then shared his deepest secrets with me. This was such a big deal to me and I wanted him to come out to me when he was ready. I don’t think he knows that I know his secret and it’s making me feel so uncomfortable knowing this and not being able to talk with him about it. We are extremely close, so I know if he was ready to tell me he would have. What should I do?