I go to a catholic school. I have a book that is basically a compilation of articles. This particular article is by Ronald Rolheiser. "Sexuality is not simply about finding a lover or even finding a friend. It is about overcoming seperateness by giving life and blessing it. Thus, in its maturity, sexuality is about giving oneself over to community, friendship, family, service, creativity, humor, delight, and martyrdom so that, with God, we can help bring life into the world." So basically as long as we are doing all of those things what could make us any different? What do you guys think of this idea?