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Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by thehockeyg, Sep 22, 2018.

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  1. thehockeyg

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    If I fantasize about enjoying gay sex and it gets me hard does that make me gay? I've heard sexual thoughts can cause a reaction. I can get hard also to thoughts of women
     
    #1 thehockeyg, Sep 22, 2018
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    How old are you? It is not uncommon for guys to be a bit curious and try out all sorts of ideas when they fantasize. I'm bisexual and I still (at nearly 60) fantasize about both men and women.

    Just be open minded and don't shut out anything because you think that's how you are supposed to be.
     
    #2 Nickw, Sep 22, 2018
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    I'm 22. I dont know if it gets me hard because j find it naughty or not. Dont really have a desire to do it in real life
     
    #3 thehockeyg, Sep 22, 2018
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    Well. Sometimes something that is taboo is a turnon.

    You are on a site for people that are gay, or bi or think they might be. Is there something else that you are feeling? You have no desire to do it in real life is that because you feel it is wrong?
     
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    I dont feel it is wrong. I just think the acts hot but I dont think I could actually go through with it. It makes me uncomfortable
     
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    Do you have sexual thoughts about women too? If so you're probably bi.
     
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    That makes sense. When I was your age, I would have never been with a guy because it just seemed like it wasn't what I SHOULD do. But, I've later learned that those fantasies and desires were real and OK.

    The fantasies could be nothing by taboo. But, there is nothing wrong with exploring your feelings to see if it is more. What do you feel when you see a hot guy? Do you check him out a bit and does that sort of give you pleasure?
     
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    I know a lot of good looking guys,I dont check them out no
     
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    It seems to me that maybe these are just fantasies. Are the guys in your fantasies guys you know or have seen somewhere?
     
    #9 Nickw, Sep 22, 2018
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