Of course, plenty of people are just trans, and very much want to be either a man or a woman, but I see pretty much no one acknowledging that there's no reason to consider yourself either of those things, or any gender, really. There's especially no reason to force yourself into behaving in a way that conforms to this weird two way scale most cultures have created. You can just do you, y'know? Like, me for instance, I've never even really understood gender, I never liked acting the way most boys act or exactly liked my body (yeah, I was AMAB), but I never felt all too comfortable with the idea of being a woman either, with all the fierceness and gossiping and breasts and whatever. I jokingly refer to myself as a "soft boi" sometimes, I imagine some people would call me a demiboy, personally I use nonbinary because I just don't see much reason for gender to even exist as a concept, frankly, and when I'm introspective I come up totally blank. I just want dat mori / moriboy fashion, some calm vibes and a hot chocolate. Also kittens. Point is, to anyone who's been questioning their gender and feels frustrated by trying to force themselves into one of two restrictive boxes, just keep in mind that the boxes really don't need to be there.