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42, married, and tortured by confusion...

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by MarkinThai, Oct 5, 2020.

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Reading my post, what's your first intuitive thought?

Poll closed Oct 8, 2020.
  1. "This guy is likely gay, psychologically closeted, and should come on out!"

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    12.5%
  2. "This guy is confused, it's not clear he's gay, might just need to do more reflection.”

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    12.5%
  3. "It's impossible to say from that intro, but anyway welcome to EC!"

    5 vote(s)
    62.5%
  4. Something else entirely, and I'll say something in a reply to your post...

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    12.5%
  1. Ram90

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    Sexual Pressure? Not so much in the time I spent in the closet, initially. But once I came out to supportive friends at 27, and started online dating, meeting guys, I was probably more excited and cautious at the same time ha ha. But in the year that followed, when I actively tried meeting guys, I observed my mind going towards a lot of "sexual thoughts" more than usual. :grin:. Stay safe and have a nice time! :slight_smile:
     
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    What I mean, to be clear, is “pressure” from inside - basically just lust, spewing out but of course with no outlet. No building up inside. But leaking ... in sort of new ways, like I found myself masturbating in car during a solo drive recently. Just no way to ignore the build up. And watching TONS of porn.

    heh. I’m probably just a typical sex-starved man arent I.
     
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    Welcome to the site!
     
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    Thanks
     
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    Anytime you need that hug, I’m here. ((momhugs)) can make it all better. My son is same. :slight_smile:
    We have to lift each other up. You can do it.
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