Well if you're me you steel yourself and make it plainly obvious in a rush and then they don't believe you because you didn't look...right? Or...
I've read all this with interest as I am a woman in this same situation with my husband. We've talked about my evolving identity but I haven't...
I know this marks me as old because I have been out of the game for along time, but there are a lot of hook up apps. Can anyone recomend one that...
When you say it like that, silverhalo, you make it sound so simple. :)
Are the people who back away younger than you? I do think there's a generational divide. Also, if I may, how did you meet your girlfriend? How...
Yeah, I'm kind of realizing I'm a bit of a jumble person myself. Not genderqueer, but sex and love buckets seem to point in different directions....
Ok Jen, I'll bite. .. :) What do you wish you were doing right now? Like not broad life goals things, just specifics. If I showed up at your house...
Hi y'all - I'm an older (50), late-in-life, look-at-this-shiny-new-toy bi-les something something I'll figure it out eventually. Most of you are...
I'm up for it ready. Still a newbie so I don't know how to chat yet. ?
Thank you for this encouragement CGD. My therapist keeps asking what I picture my life to be post divorce and I struggle to answer that question....
Same for me Reg. I am absolutely still interested in men. I even still enjoy sex with my husband, to one degree or another. But it just seems to...
All the feels Reg. can I ask you, do you still feel attracted to women?
Oh man SS thank you for sharing all that with me. It can be so hard to talk about all the things I want and am afraid of with people who have no...
Thank you DecentOne. It is very difficult to try to navigate a spouse's feelings as well as your own. It is definitely a struggle for me too....
Omg SoulSearch I feel like I have many questions for you. How did you find a woman to be with if you were still married? I kind of feel in a...
Hi all, so glad to have found a sensible forum. I've got a lot of challenges coming up and I am really flying by the seat of my pants! The short...
Hi lovely people. I'm an amusing older woman in the USA trying to deal with the consequences of waking up one day at 50 feeling suddenly quite...
