No answers, just solidarity. As I’ve gotten to know some other married bi folks this seems like a really common thread. I’m feeling it. I know...
I’m currently reading the book Come As You Are which I could not recommend highly enough. It touches on this concept and many many others. One...
I wish I could give you a hug! You’re not a horrible person. The fact that you’re here and you’re hurting shows it. The fact that you’re...
You are most definitely not alone! I'm really glad you found this place. Last summer I found this place and stories similar to my own and it...
And I would add just be patient and kind to yourself. You just did a big thing and the timeline of how long it takes you to be okay with yourself...
Congrats on just getting it out there!!! When my anxiety is spinning me out I try to touch base with what is really happening around me. So I...
I totally get the worry about what a doctor will think. Is there anyone you feel more comfortable with in your ob’s office? I totally agree with...
I am so sorry you’re feeling so terribly. Did you have ppd with ether of your previous kids? This may be a factor here. Please please make an...
Hi folks. It’s been a long time. Just to give a little context and introduce myself, I’m a bi/cis female in my mid 30s. Married to a man with...
I’m sorry you’ve been having such a difficult time :( your friends issues are her own and she may be projecting her own situation on to you. Her...
I think getting your friends take on the situation is great advise. And if you think the situation may get too charged or that it would be...
I totally get this. And in my experience of a church has “no stance” on the LGBT community, it means their stance is actually not affirming....
Oh how I feel for you! I can relate to much of this! I have only recently identified as bi, also belong to faith group that historically is not...
I totally agree with decent one about seeing a therapist and eventually a sex therapist...or if you can find someone who does both then awesome. I...
Also I don’t think it’s selfish to not come out. If anything it may be the opposite ? There are so many things that hold us back...fear probably...
Are there places you can can go to be in a supportive environment? An LGBT- friendly therapist is a great safe space. Are there community centers...
Kelsey, I know you mentioned not being friends with this person anymore but depending on how much you see her I’d try to cut off as much contact...
If you happen to come from a conservative religious background there’s a really practical book about coming out called Unashamed by amber...
Best wishes to you. Sounds like you’ve raised a pretty great kid. Hope it goes as well as possible
Well done! You said it! And you’re not alone. There are quite a few of us cis gendered, mixed orientation married, monogamous people here! If you...
