Hi, all. I've been a bit confused lately. When I was a teenager, I questioned my gender for a while and came to the conclusion that I was just a...
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I agree with silverhalo. It sounds like you both separately have major issues to work through, that may have contributed to how you hurt one...
Even when we're not homophobic, other people treating us badly due to their own homophobia can leave a mark on us that causes self-hate. You sound...
I'm so happy for you!!
How do you think they would react if they fully discovered your identity? Perhaps there are precautions you can take to ensure they don't find...
You did the right thing. It sounds like your ex was in a difficult emotional situation in regards to this lost love of hers, but that doesn't make...
Please break up with this man! You are doing so much for him, and he is doing nothing. It sounds like you have tried to bring certain things up...
The thing is, that's my feelings towards men as well. It helped me when I learned that attraction isn't supposed to be iffy--it's supposed to be...
As silverhalo said, it sounds like you already know the answer and don't want it to be true. I highly doubt this is a "medical thing;" it sounds...
There is something to be said about the monetization of pride, especially when it comes to the fact that the actual celebration seems to be...
A friend of mine got me the most beautiful rainbow skirt a couple of days ago. All I can think is that I have to try and make it to pride this...
I think there are places where things like that are becoming more and more possible. Growing up in Southern California I had two girlfriends and...
Welcome! I'm so glad your husband was supportive of how you're feeling, and I hope EC can help you find some of the answers you need.
You're welcome, and happy birthday! What a great time to start trying to turn things around:blush: (Also that's a good idea. When I first started...
God, I feel this. I'm almost always confused about what I am when I think too hard about it, because I'm always feeling like I may have found...
You absolutely should and I encourage that. While getting the type of help you've gotten can be helpful for some, I'd doubt it could do much of...
You and your old friend are not in a relationship, you don't owe anything to him. Unless you think it'll hurt you, I say go for it. As for how to...
I just want you to know it's natural to be awkward. Even when I've kissed people before, there are times when I've been "out of practice" and...
It definitely sounds like you're either a lesbian or bisexual since you want to seek out relationships with women in real life. That's the key....
