I don’t have any actual advice. But I envy you for knowing you are gay and accepting it - I feel if I could know this and accept it I would be...
in terms of can they bring me to orgasm “quicker” or are they more “exciting” relatively - it really depends. Sometimes they are their own form of...
The problem with the fantasies and working them out with her is I feel they would be degrading in a way, or turn her off, because they kinda...
I also want to add: I don’t drink or use drugs anymore and I find it hard to completely “let go” during sex with an actual person. There is a...
Thanks for the responses. An update: I have been reading some of the threads here more and am relating to the gay husbands experience. And...
I am taking fluvoxamine, it helps slightly but doesn’t fix it. I don’t know where or how to tackle everything else - I don’t know what type of...
Hey, I’ve posted on here before about my struggles with my sexuality. I have been told I need to see a therapist and deal with my other underlying...
Tha Thank you for saying this. Makes me feel less alone to know how terrible this can be for others regardless of the subject matter - if that...
I can’t tell if I have OCD or not. I have been diagnosed as OCD but I have trouble believing it because it’s like what if that’s just a form a...
I’m just gonna keep my posts relegated to here so they don’t bother people. I met this girl and I’m like really really into her - the kissing is...
So I’ve posted a bunch on here in the past sporadically. It’s weird because I’m not sure my anxiety about my sexuality is really tied to other...
And I have this other anxiety where it's about what do I need to change in order to be happy and anxiety free. Am I truly living my authentic...
I've mainly tried those types of therapists. Not cognitive ones. I've wanted to do both simultaneously but it's too expensive. I think just the...
and I haven't been in a relationship, haven't actively dated anyone for years now. It's terrible.
I talked to several therapists for months it did nothing. Yes I suppose there's a possibility I'm not actually into guys - but I have to be at...
Also I want to say, the social aspect in it's current state. I actually really would not mind being gay right now if I can manage it - I feel like...
I haven't had real sex in like - I can't even remember. A year probably more. I'm in my early 30's. Off and on trying to quit porn. I have been...
I'm sorry to again be writing on this. After I write this I will read brain lock some more - so far the book has been very interesting in terms of...
All right.
I wish it worked this way. I have seen several therapists. I have quit porn for 30 and 32 days respectively. Work on my trauma in various...