Hi and welcome! I can relate to a lot that you said. The emotional connection can be a big factor... I love my husband so much, but even in our...
Well, if it’s any consolation, it’s taken me literally a year to get even to this point of taking little steps. So it’s a process and we all go...
To be honest, I do feel some relief, but also a huge amount of fear and second-guessing. My husband and I had a nice day out with the kids...
Yes. I’m also the breadwinner. My husband literally just started a new job today, but hasn’t worked full time in the past 5 years. He had no...
I’m so sorry this happened. It’s unreal to think this stuff still happens in 2019, right? Glad you’re ok and glad you’re getting out of there...
@Contented - as a woman, I was not offended by your thoughts on vaginas. I had to laugh as I thought about how awesome I think they are! @Nickw...
It sounds like you are taking steps, which is great! Being out of the house will give you some space to think clearly, regardless of the outcome....
I met up with two very good friends today who talked some sense into me. They are two women who are a few years older than me who have both been...
@jsm - speaking from my own experience, I think sometimes when we are so enamored with a woman, we put up with much more than we normally would....
It’s so hard... I feel like I’ve been in your shoes and also on the other side. Has she been with other women before? Sometimes our 1st same sex...
My situation isn’t exactly the same, but there are similarities. Isn’t it funny how even with the ability to be with women, something within you...
Thanks!
@Fenrir do you believe I am asking someone to make this decision for me? Isn't this entire site to help people who are questioning this big...
I think there were several valid points raised on multiple sides here... I don't believe sex should be an obligation for anyone, but yes,...
I get this. I want nothing more than to remain friends with my husband and for him to accept me and for us all to still be a family, whatever that...
Hey all, different kind of post for me... Normally I post about my own angst, lol. Today I am worried about my kids, especially my son. Try as we...
Yeah, I do feel like divorce is inevitable. I am just not ready to go there yet. Part of it is timing - both my husband and I are looking to make...
Thank you! :)
I do find that straight people don’t get how we didn’t always know our sexual orientation with 100% certainty - especially if those straight...
Yes. Comfortably Numb!
