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  1. Jon Sol
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    How to deal with friend that wants more

    I have a friend, "James" that helped me when I was coming out. (About 4 years ago. I'm 50, btw.) We've never been anything more than friends and...
    Thread by: Jon Sol, Feb 18, 2023, 6 replies, in forum: Family, Friends, and Relationships
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    How do I explain/feel like I wasn't lying?

    I came out late in life. (47yo) And it's been 15 whole months since i told my wife. Our circumstances are different, of course. We were already...
    Post by: Jon Sol, Jan 24, 2021 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    What Was The Most Encouraging Reaction You Got When You Came Out

    When I came out to my ex. (After year separation.) I Broke down telling her. She didn't hesitate. Came right over, hugged me, told me it was...
    Post by: Jon Sol, May 23, 2020 in forum: Sexual Orientation
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    Want that romantic relationship, but how?!?

    Hey all. Hope everyone is doing well and staying safe. (And not going nuts.) I'm wondering how to find or, at least, look for, the man of my...
    Thread by: Jon Sol, May 19, 2020, 1 replies, in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Any suggestions?

    I came out to my wife and son at the young age of 47. My son was 21 at the time and my wife and I were separated. (our separation wasn't because...
    Post by: Jon Sol, May 19, 2020 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Am finally ready to explore my sexuality and I flop. WTF!?

    My back story. 47 YO. On blood pressure meds and just got on PREP. Now, I've haven't had sex in years. My wife and I separated over a year ago. I...
    Thread by: Jon Sol, Dec 31, 2019, 1 replies, in forum: Physical & Sexual Health
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    Living in Limbo

    I just came out to my wife. We have been separated for over a year so that pressure was off, but it didn't make it any easier. The whole argument...
    Post by: Jon Sol, Dec 31, 2019 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Question about coming out

    Hey Davos. I can relate with what you're going thru. (As many can.) I just came out to my wife and son last week. Now as a back story, my wife and...
    Post by: Jon Sol, Nov 24, 2019 in forum: Coming Out Advice
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    Why do you think homophobes exist?

    I think homophobes are the same as those that are racists or sexist or just your run of the mill bullies. People have their own fears and...
    Post by: Jon Sol, Dec 15, 2018 in forum: Chit Chat
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    Life changing fast, now do i come out?.......

    I have a son. He's in college now and we are very close. Right now i live at home, with him. Come spring i'll be moving out and the wife will move...
    Post by: Jon Sol, Dec 15, 2018 in forum: Coming Out Advice
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    Life changing fast, now do i come out?.......

    I'm glad things are going better for you. It's good to hear. I have some savings. Xmas is tapping into it, somewhat. So, when i move out, in the...
    Post by: Jon Sol, Dec 5, 2018 in forum: Coming Out Advice
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    Life changing fast, now do i come out?.......

    Not taking it the wrong way. I am one fearful dude. And i do have a tendency to make things bigger then they are. Not gonna lie. And truth is I've...
    Post by: Jon Sol, Dec 2, 2018 in forum: Coming Out Advice
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    Life changing fast, now do i come out?.......

    Thanks Rade/Lone Wolfe. It never occurred to me to come out to my son first. I don't know. I know he wouldn't condemn me or anything like that....
    Post by: Jon Sol, Dec 2, 2018 in forum: Coming Out Advice
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    Life changing fast, now do i come out?.......

    I'm a married, 46 yo, newly separated, with a 19 yo son "gay" man. Been repressing my feelings(?) for a long time.Denying, really. Came home, one...
    Thread by: Jon Sol, Dec 1, 2018, 12 replies, in forum: Coming Out Advice
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