It's late here too, so I'll give you the abridged version. Basically, I don't feel like I am either a man or a woman. I don't fit neatly into...
I don't have any name suggestions outright, but I did find a link for 50 top gender-neutral names. It also has a breakdown next to each name...
I got 21 as well, so you've got some company, lol.