I have ocd and anxiety and I can relate to your intrusive thoughts completely. You're doing the right thing going to your GP to get help. It is...
I have had very similar experiences. Whilst in straight relationships and when having sex regularly I found the gay desires fantasies would be...
All the things that make up a relationship really, from getting to know someone, first date, first kiss and the becoming more intimate and...
Its interesting when I was younger being in a straight relationship definitely helped me repress the gay thoughts more easily and allowed me to...
Hi, Snowqueen I'm 51 too from UK and like you just coming to terms with accepting being gay. A
This is me on the flip I side. I am gay but still find some women very attractive. I just don't get sexually aroused by them. Realising this was...
I thought I was straight but with gay fantasies when I was younger then bi but Chip's post sums me up well so I now realise I am gay but it has...
@Joolz66 it's so reassuring to know people have the same experiences. Makes me feel more sure about where I am now in terms of accepting being gay.
Thanks for all your comments. It's really good to know similar experiences. I do think more and more about the romantic and intimacy side and...
I am 51 and married and for many years now have been questioning my sexuality. My history is similar to many older people on here. As a teenager...
thanks @bearheart for your advice and support. I do think each time i have been on EC i have got slightly further along in terms of acceptance,...
aw4288 It would seem so. Put it this way, if that was me it would take no time to get an erection and feel really turned on.
@aw4288 For me suppressing my sexuality was not letting myself even think about gay sex for example. When I was in my 20s I literally wouldn't...
So I am back for my third time on EC. I am in my late 40s and over the last few years have started to come to conclusion that I am probably gay. I...
