Hi Tallguy1973, I can really relate to your situation and your feelings. It is certainly not easy, is it...but you have at least made the first...
Hey Andoni, Very, very similar to me. Like you, I am leaning towards being gay despite preferring women's looks and smooth skin etc - but here's...
Hi BiGemini Thanks for your message and apologies for not reading this before and getting back to you sooner. Some good valid points there. I...
Hi all, This is the first post from me in more than five years. Late forties guy here, still married, still questioning my sexuality. I have an...
Me too...sometimes I deny that I even exist, while on other days I deny that other people exist!
I'm with you there, Out and In. I think my wife's general behaviour pushed me away a bit. I then thought to myself that "look, you have homosexual...
My pleasure, I feel your pain. With time you can at least be free to make the decision to stay with him or be with a woman. X
Hiya, I do not want to tell you what is best for you, only you can decide, and we all have our own little unresolved problems and situations. But...
I feel you buddy, it is tough. Even though I'm not at a stage where I just want it over with my wife (I actually want to make it work) I totally...
I can relate to most of the comments on this thread, by fellow posters. I have a difficult marriage, and with a young child as well it adds...
I think it depends firstly on your actual sexual orientation, and then on things like one's internalised homophobia and fear of being rejected,...
I loved his music anyway, but I thought the late great Chris Cornell was a seriously good looking guy, especially in the 90s and 00s. Nice looking...
I know. I feel like throwing the towel in some days, but that's mainly because my wife is super strong willed and argumentative over virtually...
I can understand that...and the more times and memories you have together, and times of supporting each other through difficult life events, not...
Yes, it always sounds simple in theory...I guess I would rather for a while at least stay with my wife and watch my kids grow up as a family unit....
Lol yeah probably. On the one hand it sounds excessive and indulgent, whilst on the other hand I had no choice in the matter of my sexuality and...
I think that there may be an element of guilt and occasional self-shaming involved here. It certainly happens to me sometimes, and on those...
Same for me. Sometimes I "go with the flow" and enjoy homosexual thoughts and feelings and the arousal and excitement that they bring...other...
I'm cool with animals in general, but recently been a big cat person. Guess that makes me a lezzer...
I can relate to this completely. I look at females and enjoy their beauty, but not generally towards men. I like sex with both sexes, and romances...