Got to the word "he," and my "uh-uh" alarm went off. Sex therapist should be same gender, IMHO.
Even thinking about boys or men while masturbating, however briefly, used to fill me with guilt and dread. I would take breaks just to not go...
To be perfectly honest, the whole thing was over when we bought a Hitachi Wand. Hell *yes,* I pleased my partner, and you could see it on the...
The day I stopped and honestly evaluated what I was doing and why. For decades as a serious church going Christian, every same-sex thought brought...
Cut off kinda sounds like there was some intimacy with males before 14. If so, how do you feel about those experiences? I just wrote a thread...
Every so often I sit down to right the story of my introduction to gay sex, writing with, shall we say, prurient intent. Ahem. I have written...
I met with four guys on there and enjoyed every one. I was alone in another state and living out, and it just worked for me, met one really sweet...
Fantasize gay, attracted to women, got it. Let's invert that, make it a question: Do you ever fantasize about women? Do you ever find yourself...
You don't have to *prove* anything, you get to define yourself.
Thanks.
The truth is I don't know any straight people. I stayed in the evangelical church for forty years, because that's what it took to preserve my...
Another good question might be, how often do you fantasize about women? I haven't fantasized about a female since Carter was president, but I've...
So here's how shame works, according to Brene Brown: Guilt is a message from your subconscious, informed by your memory, of harm that you have...
You buy time, I think. I did this for 26 years, round peg in a square hole, pretended to be straight because we had a kid, because that's what God...
There really is this thing called "seduction." Stop negotiating the relationship and start greeting him at the door in a pink Speedo with a tray...
Excellent work on your part. Seeing a non-LGBTQ counselor is like seeing a podiatrist because you have a sore throat.
I love Campit. ;)
Somehow I fell into another relationship with a woman that lasted about two years and ended last week. There were good and bad parts; I do enjoy...
Let's face it: Men are just animals. Rrrowff!
Some therapists provide therapy via sky-pe, a conversation is a conversation, right? So if you have broadband, bueno. The trouble with this is...
