You might need more of an emotional connection to get aroused. Part of it for many is feeling safe and comfortable.
Are you using a vibrator? If not, that’s what I’d recommend. Also, plenty of lube. Like Loves books said, you don’t need to insert anything to...
Some days ... yes. But I think staying would have gotten harder and harder.
I've been through this too. It is so, so hard. I miss my ex-husband every day. He was my best friend for 25 years and the grief is powerful. I...
Ugh! I’m sorry that your dad said that. I get that your parents are struggling, but that must have felt awful.
I’ve been with my girlfriend for more than a year now and I still sometimes wonder if I’m really gay. I am. I love having sex with her (which I...
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Check with your county court and see if they offer mediation that would include help figuring out the spousal support piece. I got divorced in...
I'm so sorry. :(
Yes, that happened to me too. I immersed myself in lesbian music, movies, and tv shows. I had a longing to connect with other LGBT+ people, but...
I have friends who have had really good success with EMDR and echo what Chip said. I hope that it helps you.
I’m sorry you are struggling. I hope you are able to see a therapist soon. You likely have PTSD, and the good news (according to what my therapist...
I just want to say that you’re not alone in your feelings. I’ve been struggling with motherhood and work since I realized I was gay too. I’m doing...
I love finding LGBTQ+ content (ok, well for me, lesbian content) in movies, TV shows, books, and music. For me it's important to see same-sex...
I don't think it's that unusual, as many of us here can attest. I was married to a man for 20 years before I realized I was gay. Being gay wasn't...
Such a hard conversation -- I've been there. Do you want to stay with your husband, or will you pursue your attraction to women? Like @silverhalo...
I’m sorry you struggling. Are you able to see a therapist to help you work through this? I don’t know a lot about it, but my intuition says it...
Explore now before you get married. Be honest with all parties involved. Don’t get caught having to hide yourself. I was married for 20 years and...
I have the same question as KJ. Does she know you’re into women? Are you both single? I totally get not wanting to be infatuated with someone...
Are you happy with your husband? Does he fulfill you emotionally and sexually? If so, I’d go with bi/pan if you feel you need a label, and...