Hey @Fuzzy Yeah I can completely relate to what you’re saying. Before I came out, I used to go out with my friends for drinks or whatever and...
Absolutely! It’s very normal to feel nervous in that situation. The first time being intimate with anyone, whether you’re ‘experienced’ or not can...
@Linning What you said about wondering if your attraction to women was just a phase and could change just like it did for men. That’s exactly...
@sjax0628 That’s exactly what I did too, I mean doing things to appear ‘more straight’. Whenever I went shopping and I tried something on, if I...
Me, me, me!! I lived a completely straight life up until a few years ago and I would have argued until I was blue in the face that I was straight....
Q1. Yes. I never struggled in that dept with an opposite sex partner BUT I did have to think of the same sex in order to push me over the...
Hi @Elle993 It’s hard to really say as it all depends on you at the end of the day but I totally understand your thinking with this. I used to...
Hi @Bng10160 Wow, I’ve been where you are and so trust me when I say you’re not alone. A little background just to show I relate, I’ve had always...
This is a bit of a difficult question to answer as like other posters have said, everyone is different. But yeah communication is absolutely key....
I can see both sides of the coin here and i think @tystnad makes some very valid points. I think it might just have to be the case that while...
@mnguy Thanks for saying you’re proud of me, that’s really sweet. Believe me, it wasn’t easy going and I think i came up with every excuse under...
@Nice Dave Thanks so much for your post. I find it interesting that even though you’ve been out for 14 years you still find it slightly...
@SevnButton That’s a really good idea about setting smaller goals. I think that’ll really help and like you said, hopefully I’ll have the...
Hey. Thanks for both of your replies. Yeah you’re right about already being on the back foot by going alone. Also I don’t think it helped a...
hey everyone. So last weekend was London Pride and I made an effort to go even though I was by myself. In the evening there was an all girl...
Hi @Ben35 Glad that you’re feeling a lot better today. I hope you don’t mind, but I checked your location and I know it pretty well Maybe some...
Hi everyone. So haven’t posted anything for a while but I’m looking for a little insight. I came out a little over a year ago (I’m 35 now) most...
Hi ladies. Sorry I’m jumping in on your thread here. I first saw the L Word about 13 years ago and for me it was all about Carmen #sigh#. I...
@Lion4 i totally get how you’re feeling. Honestly I sometimes worry about the same thing too. Self doubt can be a b*tch can’t it. It’s amazing...
Hi @Lion4. Can I ask what makes you think that your attraction to women isn’t real?? I completely understand about being sick of analysing your...
