Hi @Vimto, My ex had Asperger's and was far from a loving relationship. We lived together but definitely more like friends. I think it's really...
Unfortunately due to your age I can imagine it being rather tricky. Are there any charities in your area that offer support groups or lgbt youth...
Hi, Welcome to Empty Closets. I was in a long term relationship myself when I found I was attracted to someone of the same sex. Happy to lend...
Hi @autopilot, Welcome to Empty Closets. I used the site significantly when I was feeling lost like yourself and everyone was so nice and...
Hi, I do have some experience in the all girls school area. I do not think being only around girls would be the reason for your crush. Otherwise...
Hi, I was unsure how I felt much like you for around 4 years. I was confused if I just found women pretty or seriously hot lol. If I had built it...
Welcome to EC . I am sure you will find plenty of people to share your interests with.
Welcome to EC
Hi Andrews, I can see where the replies are coming from, sex is really important in many relationships. I was married to a guy before realised I...
I can openly say that I have had mixed reactions to being lesbian. I have had many raised eyebrows and looks from parents who think I shouldn't be...
Hi, Sorry to hear you got a lack of response. I try to check in daily but time difference and work definitely play a factor. Getting yourself...
It may feel like the distant future or that it may never happen but I also felt this way earlier this year. Then bam, the next thing I knew I had...
So pleased to see how far you have come since I last logged in! Good luck with the next step. Remember to never be discouraged by varying...
Hi and welcome! Who doesn't love kittens . I have 2 rescue cats both just over a year old. Always upto mischief! Empty Closets is a great forum,...
Hi and welcome! Everyone is so supportive here and frankly I would probably still be closeted without the support from EC. I hope you find...
I can relate to the lack of trust in men aspect. Myself I think it took my minds focus (which presumed I liked men) off men and then in doing So,...
I got to the point of being able to tell I could see a guy as attractive but not wanting to act on it through a lot of questioning. I also opened...
I can second @silverhalo. From personal experience, I wouldn't say your fantasies are just fantasies. Most of us have been where you are now. No...
@amiready It is such a confusing time. Unfortunately there are no black and white answers. I am lesbian but dam I can look at a guy and think,...