I've done some thinking I've realized that yes, it was silly to think that any of those traits are gendered. I don't even think I thought of them...
I have developed a crush on my roommate over the past few days who is trans femme (they/she). this is my first time getting a crush on a trans...
ugh okay im responding to my own comment months later to say that, like @Gleek99 , I find that guy/guy turns me on a lot. I love how the OP said...
this is EXACTLY HOW I FEEL!!!! Like, to the letter. I had huge crushes on guys up until I was 18, too, but only had one very short relationship...
Hi! So, yes. I think you might be gay. I'm not exactly sure what role the porn addiction/masturbation/antidepressants play into it all, but it...
I agree with silverhalo that you have a pretty good idea deep down how you feel, at least about women. I really relate to what you said about...
It's kind of hard to explain... I guess the thought of being with men really isn't appealing, but it's much more appealing in my head, if that...
Curious- why did you think you were making it up? Was it because you wanted your crush to be real, or you wanted it to be fake (i.e. did you hope...
Yea, I have felt the same boringness with both genders, too, and anytime it happens I have to reevaluate everything I thought I knew about my...
I've been struggling with this for months. Sometimes I feel like I know who I am, and other times (like now), I feel like I have no clue. I...
I'm having a similar problem- I want a label!! I'm one of those people who think labels make things so much easier. I wish I could just like who I...
I'll preface with the fact that I'm not completely sure if I'm bi or a lesbian, but I've had a lot of fantasies of me being a guy who is with a...
I can't imagine how hard that must've been for you, but I think you're very brave. I hope you are able to surround yourself with a great network...
I don't think that not being attracted to a gender does, or has to, equal resenting them. I don't think you mentioned anything that made me feel...
I felt the exact same a few weeks ago when I joined, but honestly, coming to EC is what helped me figure it all out. The only difference between...
I really understand that feeling of not being able to give up the fight unless you can't or unless you win, but if you feel like fighting is...
@Silveroot Thank you so much!! I feel like we're going through a very similar situation. I'm sure your father has some part in your feelings...
I really agree with @SquareBiz here. People really don't give enough credit to how hard it is to untangle those heteronormative thoughts (like how...
@claudiakay Luckily I don't want to not be a woman because it makes me a target (obviously I wish women weren't targets, but I'm still happy to be...
I think this is a super common experience for lesbians! I think the stereotype is that lesbians have to be 100% attracted to women and never ever...
