One last note the Advocate- a Gay Magazine, said Peter Theil was not 'gay' he just had gay sex... because his views did not conform to the...
I have appreciated everyone's input but it seems the questions I am asking or the points I am making might be better addressed somewhere else, I...
What do you call rights? Many conservative gays and liberal gays who support free speech and conscious are against fines and penalties for using...
....., do you see the irony here? Do you what the punishment for homosexual behavior is in many muslim countries? Of all the mainstream religions...
I think people thought it was a joke or mocking trump, but when they found out they supported him, well that's when the guy lost his job :)
Gay is also an identity movement, and it demands ideological conformity . Your question is probably similar to those who are religious but...
Porn can really screw you up. There is a site 'your brain on porn dot com' that has instances of gay and lesbians getting addicted to straight...
Like other have said, I was amazed how good it felt to just say 'I am gay'... I am still struggling with denial and acceptance, but simply saying...
I am a little behind you on acceptance- still struggling with that ..but I have felt strong, positive urges to tell certain close friends I...
it's so weird to read that you were one time where we are :) I fear that the scales can swing back again and that's what keeps from going forward...
It sounds like you have a very open minded and healthy attitude about all of this. There are many helpful thoughtful posters here but also many...
If there is no clear way of determining sexual orientation or no clear way of even defining it, then how can people claim it can't be changed,...
Hey, I am just really glad you're taking a step in the real world, I know how it feels to have all of it in your head... who knows where it may...
I agree this has given me something to think about
No advice to offer but I just wanted to say I can totally relate to this...
when i fantasize about men this is what i feel like....
Thank you! This is very helpful.. a literally said "ah ha! ' when I read it! I have had the weird feeling that my 'gay' fantasies are narcissism,...
Ok that makes sense. Yes, but the question for me at least, are my fantasies something I want in reality or are they symbolic, like a...
I can relate to this - and why, for me at least, my fantasies don't seem real and are possibly symbolic of something else. I do think confronting...
Even for us who have no family or kids, or spouses letting go of 'the dream' is hard, it must be infinitely harder when you have real flesh and...
