Thank you fvpa01, it hasn’t been easy. I am trying to make the transition into my new reality smooth for me, my wife and son. It wasn’t anyone’s...
I understand where you are coming from. I just came out to my wife of 18 years on January 29. We have a son who is 7. As for my experience, I...
I am definitely trying to go slowly and to let her process. I jokingly told her Deadpool looked fun, the part where they celebrate international...
Thanks Nick. I feel I want to explore and express my my gay side. I want to remain supportive of my son, and I want to have an amicable...
We had another long discussion last night, she had done some googling and had a couple of articles for me to read. One was Joe Kort dealing with...
She broke down in tears since this wasn’t the first time I mentioned having same sex attractions. She said she “knew” I would come later to tell...
Thank you Nick, it is tough to see. I feel one weight lifted replaced by another. That is all I can do, take one day at a time
So, things didn’t go as planned. I was going to come out to my wife at the therapy appointment on Sunday, but between the anxiety attacks and...
Yeah it did! It was crazy, made no sense sometimes, but was always a blast especially for me! I confess, I have a hard time watching it like a...
I know you will be ok. The more you talk about issues with people the easier it becomes. There is a technical term for that but it is “exposure...
Lostindaydreams, that is it exactly!
Ok, thanks for responding ;) makes me feel better
Star runner I couldn’t have said it better myself !
I think we all go through this stage? There are three times in my life that stick out to me that filled me with deep anxiety at the thought of...
I am hoping I wasn’t offensive? I don’t want or mean to be. I have found it very helpful in my journey towards accepting my homosexuality to be...
Don't doubt who you are attracted to, I am just now realizing what gender that is, and it has taken me 40 years!
Thank you David, Yes I am at the stage of having to make a change. I am truly humbled by myself; the courage to seek my truth, and confront my...
As someone who is chomping at the bit to come out of hiding to his wife, Mysteryman, I can tell you it is not something I would wish on anyone....
Thank you so much I was afraid I was on the wrong track. I will be meeting with the center in a couple weeks, although they are supposed to get a...
I am now working with my local lgbt center. I am starting therapy with a therapist who affirms gay individuals. Between these two I should be...