trigger warning, as I am still deconstructing my straight marriage. So I have posted over the years about my journey, and I believe my last...
List weight…gained lol it back but have created a physical fitness regimen I am sticking to. Survived Covid. And I came out publicly as a gay man.
Thank you LostinDaydreams. It seems like we were both new here around the same time and look how far we’ve come
Well, another update for you all. I don’t discuss my personal life at work but from comments from someone coworkers and customers, I know that it...
I’m proof that being married doesn’t make you bisexual. As I got more serious and was making more of a commitment became more obsessed with gay...
I basically went about 13 years after determining that I was really gay hanging in there. Probably would have stayed but she had addiction and...
Been a while since I have posted here. I am popping in just to give and update which I hope will provide some encouragement and insight for...
@Moondancer I was outed several times over 2 decades. I didn’t have a bad personal situation. I am sorry that you have family that may be an...
I feel for you. I spent over 15 years knowing that I would never be truly satisfied with a relationship with a woman...the realization that I was...
@GeoTrekker I certainly know that this is tough. I knew my truth as did my wife by the time I was 30 and we kicked along for a number of reasons...
@sunflower8 you have opened the door....keep things open and honest and the 2 of you can see where it goes, where the journey takes you.
@Moondancer I am not a professional, but I think the fact that you feel he was intruding on your time with the ladies(porn), I think that this is...
@Snowqueen I definitely feel less restricted when I am not so guarded.
@Moondancer I think your instincts are correct. It’s best for you both to be free. I spent some years in an acknowledged mixed orientation...
These are definitely important steps. Hopefully the relationship with your current spouse will continue to be a positive one. Not uncommon for...
@Contented I really never understood how much energy I put into controlling myself. My ex-wife used to make snarky comments at times...especially...
@LostInDaydreams I am beyond worrying about those I have lost. I have struggled to present a certain way, but I get laughing or heaven forbid a...
Well just thought I would jump on with an update. Covid kinda slowed things, but the first of June I moved back into my house. I have very...
I am 48 with many similarities, though the homosexual reality was never far from my conscience. It’s tough, but it’s definitely only fair for the...
Well lost... I think that you do have to consider if it is time to tell him. I know that it can be difficult though because I met a few others...