I know at least a couple gay guys who stayed in their marriages after coming out. I have a sense one is “doing it for our child”, and the other...
Thanks for posting this. It’s like listening to the story of the Good Samaritan and realizing school (society) decided that the robbers/bullies...
Lyric, I’m married and our children are grown and live on their own now. I always knew I wanted to be a father, and I think it is one of the...
"Blood Debts" by Terry J. Benton-Walker. A brother and sister (16 years old) trying to figure out family secrets from 30 years ago, doing magic,...
Welcome JavyD3, That’s sad that your girlfriend broke up when you were being open and honest with her. Sometimes the people who say they want...
I came out to my wife as bisexual about five years ago, also late-in-life, with grown kids. I practiced with my therapist to figure out what...
I read today that a local paper did spot inconsistencies before the election and they called him out and said they would not endorse him. Nobody...
Hi Mike, Welcome to E.C.! I’ve found this place to be one of the most supportive and helpful. I’m older than you, and just came out to myself and...
I went to a big LGBTQ festival recently, and they were offering Monkeypox shots. So there must be a good amount of supply. I didn’t get the...
Thanks all for your positive reactions to my remembrance of Roger. EC is such a great community. Choirboy, that was a sad post. I’m so sorry...
I’ve been tossing old papers, and came across one with Roger’s name on it. Back in the 80’s before I was married, Roger and I were hanging out as...
Welcome to EC AlexKS, I’m a married man who now identifies as bisexual (came out about 4+ years ago), still married (I’m older than you, and my...
I came out to myself as bisexual soon after some therapy sessions, just over four years ago. I then worked through what I’d say to my wife,...
So glad to hear this story Choirboy! It sounds as if your ex-wife didn’t poison the atmosphere, which is a real gift. You get to show up as you,...
Best wishes with this. I told my Mom months after came out as bisexual to myself and my wife (about 4 years ago). But in my case I knew she...
Thanks @Samuel23 I have passed this along to the wonderful Aunt! I also like the alternative suggestion: sibkid
I’m bisexual, and so I do have desire for my wife, and so our marriage continues much as before on that level. And then I have my private time...
David, What a wonderful opportunity on that car ride. I hope you and your wife get more excuses to share. I am so glad you are on staff. It is...
For me I realized my fantasies had switched to being guys. All. The. Time. So different, and why was it happening at my age?! I wondered what...
Hi all, I was in conversation with a woman who said her nephew (or niece) was starting to use they/them pronouns, and she wanted to be a loving...
