hi, Growing. your post is not at all offensive. not in the slightest. i'm happy to answer your questions. the truth is that when my wife and i...
David/Quebec, thank you so much for your reply yesterday. it was tremendously helpful. i have to ask (because I'm sorry it wasn't entirely clear...
i know, i know, siennafire. i know you're absolutely correct in your assessment. the truth is that my wife and i still love and care for each...
Are any of you who have come out to your spouse in a mixed orientation marriage that works? if so, can you please share what your experience has...
hi, growing. such a good question to ask. been curious about that, too.
thank you, silverhalo. yes, she just started seeing a therapist. i know it will be helpful for her. her first session already was. i just...
thank you, leb. today has been another grueling, emotional day. it's abundantly clear that my wife wants to slow things down, that she isn't...
hi, everyone. by now it's been a month since i came out to my wife. it's been a turbulent roller coaster to say the very least. she and i both...
hello everyone. it's been nearly a week since i posted. so many of you have offered such powerful words of encouragement, reminding me that...
thank you all so much for your word of encouragement and support. as you can imagine, they've been invaluable. yesterday was the biggest...
thank you, everyone, for your input and words of encouragement. i don't want to continue beating the dead horse by endlessly repeating how...
i talked to my wife this morning. after a very restless, anxious night of tossing/turning, i woke up before she did and laid on the couch in our...
i've been browsing on these forums for nearly six months. i apologize in advance for any grammatical errors as i'm typing all of this via stream...
Thank you for your insight, @justaguyinsf. i believe you're right: i do want me and my wife to work out. I will look into finding a couples...
Lost, I wish I could give you a great big hug of support right now. I've been following your story as you've shared it on my posts. You and I...
Thank you so much, Findingmyself1. Hanging in there has been extremely difficult and heartbreaking, as you can attest. I'm very happy to hear...
Thanks for your reply, Nimmer. You bring up many interesting points. My wife is not ok with open relationships...and to be honest, the only way...
Thank you to everyone who has taken the time to reply to me by sharing your own personal narratives and experiences. It does offer me the...
Hi, Kunoichi. Everything you stated hits home very hard for me....except i'm a guy that is struggling coming to terms with my own sexuality. I...
Thank you so much, justaguyinsf. You're correct in that stressing and agonizing over all of this has basically killed my libido. Luckily, we...